Friday, February 20, 2009

it's a friday

Today is my sister's birthday and this morning, at 6 am, i was waken up by my mom. One of my uncles has passed away in his sleep early this morning, probably before dawn. Don't worry ladies, i'm fine. I haven't seen him for ages, although he's my mom's step-brother. It's still sad, and shocking. He was diagnosed with blockage in his coronary arteries some time last year but he was slowly recovering. But suddenly, he's gone.
Like ping said, when a person heals miraculously fast, normally it hints something bad is on its way. But someone who complains all the time about the pains, that person usually still has a long way to go.
My mom is in labuan now. I'm taking a day off tomorrow so i can stay back in tutong, fetching my brother and niece from school.

Sometimes, i find it a bit sorry because my generation doesn't know those elders from my parents' or grandparents' generations well. There are lots of times when i meet some people, who they know well about my parents or elders in my family but i have no idea how to address them at all. For me, that is not polite. Or sometimes i know who they are but i simply don't know how we are related, so most of the time, i can only smile, as sweet and polite as i can.

A vocational school is looking for a daily-paid instructor. I know, i've said it that i don't want to teach. But now, i'm applying for it. Hmm.. that's life i guess. I have to be 'flexible', do the right thing at the right time. It's a chance after all. Who knows, it might turn out that i enjoy teaching, since i've always longed for someone to share those amazing facts i've learnt. Hope i can get it.

At the moment, i'm thinking of getting a new car. We're short of one car at home. I know my sister and brother have been expecting me to buy a new car since long time ago but i've been procrastinating about it. Because i think what we needed was not a new car, we just needed to be more cooperative and share the cars.
Now i see the need of another car. I'm thinking of getting a second hand one, so i can save more money, with a shorter duration of loans. But both my sister and dad think i should get a brand new car. I don't understand. Does new car always the synonym for less or no problem?
My main problem is, i don't have any preference when it comes to car. Oh maybe just 1, i don't like to have big cars, because big cars mean more money to me. I want a car which i'm confident enough with the loans.

Eversince i start to share the family expenses, i realized how easily money can be spent. I'll try every way i can to minimize spending. Thank god i have spare money when my corolla car needed serious repair last time. Hmm.. i'll buy based on primary needs, not secondary needs..

Swait Zin, if you're reading this, i have one question for you: WHERE is our photos taken at Capers last time??

3 comments:

liz said...

Yes, new car DOES mean less problem, coz you dont know what the last owner has done to the car! Maintenance is very bloody expensive. It's better to buy a cheap new car, and take good care of it from the start.
I think Vios is a good choice coz Toyota is a good brand, Vios is not expensive and if anything happens, mainatenance will be cheaper (coz there are too many vios in Brunei)

Mimi said...

*hugs* sorry for the loss. Anyway, having your own car is a huge responsibility, what with worrying about the monthly payments and the maintenance. That is why I always have to prioritize my spendings. I rarely buy things that I want but I don't need yet. Though I can never resist good food..

Hehe. I totally agree with Lizzie. New car = less problem. Yesh, buy Toyota. The best brand ever! Hope you get the job *hugs* Teaching is fun once you get the hang of it. And you actually get to learn new things every day from your students.. Take care xoxo

keith said...

yup, i just sent to ur mail. enjoy~ :)