Today is my sister's birthday and this morning, at 6 am, i was waken up by my mom. One of my uncles has passed away in his sleep early this morning, probably before dawn. Don't worry ladies, i'm fine. I haven't seen him for ages, although he's my mom's step-brother. It's still sad, and shocking. He was diagnosed with blockage in his coronary arteries some time last year but he was slowly recovering. But suddenly, he's gone.
Like ping said, when a person heals miraculously fast, normally it hints something bad is on its way. But someone who complains all the time about the pains, that person usually still has a long way to go.
My mom is in labuan now. I'm taking a day off tomorrow so i can stay back in tutong, fetching my brother and niece from school.
Sometimes, i find it a bit sorry because my generation doesn't know those elders from my parents' or grandparents' generations well. There are lots of times when i meet some people, who they know well about my parents or elders in my family but i have no idea how to address them at all. For me, that is not polite. Or sometimes i know who they are but i simply don't know how we are related, so most of the time, i can only smile, as sweet and polite as i can.
A vocational school is looking for a daily-paid instructor. I know, i've said it that i don't want to teach. But now, i'm applying for it. Hmm.. that's life i guess. I have to be 'flexible', do the right thing at the right time. It's a chance after all. Who knows, it might turn out that i enjoy teaching, since i've always longed for someone to share those amazing facts i've learnt. Hope i can get it.
At the moment, i'm thinking of getting a new car. We're short of one car at home. I know my sister and brother have been expecting me to buy a new car since long time ago but i've been procrastinating about it. Because i think what we needed was not a new car, we just needed to be more cooperative and share the cars.
Now i see the need of another car. I'm thinking of getting a second hand one, so i can save more money, with a shorter duration of loans. But both my sister and dad think i should get a brand new car. I don't understand. Does new car always the synonym for less or no problem?
My main problem is, i don't have any preference when it comes to car. Oh maybe just 1, i don't like to have big cars, because big cars mean more money to me. I want a car which i'm confident enough with the loans.
Eversince i start to share the family expenses, i realized how easily money can be spent. I'll try every way i can to minimize spending. Thank god i have spare money when my corolla car needed serious repair last time. Hmm.. i'll buy based on primary needs, not secondary needs..
Swait Zin, if you're reading this, i have one question for you: WHERE is our photos taken at Capers last time??
3 comments:
Yes, new car DOES mean less problem, coz you dont know what the last owner has done to the car! Maintenance is very bloody expensive. It's better to buy a cheap new car, and take good care of it from the start.
I think Vios is a good choice coz Toyota is a good brand, Vios is not expensive and if anything happens, mainatenance will be cheaper (coz there are too many vios in Brunei)
*hugs* sorry for the loss. Anyway, having your own car is a huge responsibility, what with worrying about the monthly payments and the maintenance. That is why I always have to prioritize my spendings. I rarely buy things that I want but I don't need yet. Though I can never resist good food..
Hehe. I totally agree with Lizzie. New car = less problem. Yesh, buy Toyota. The best brand ever! Hope you get the job *hugs* Teaching is fun once you get the hang of it. And you actually get to learn new things every day from your students.. Take care xoxo
yup, i just sent to ur mail. enjoy~ :)
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